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Dr. Nicole Steele has spent the past three decades empowering ladies, leaders and little girls.  Stay up to date on the curated tips, tools and resources she offers to help people build the clarity, confidence and courage to SHINE brilliantly.




Dr. Nicole Steele has spent the past three decades empowering ladies, leaders and little girls.  Stay up to date through her Priceless Posts on the curated tips, tools and resources she offers to help people build the clarity, confidence and courage to SHINE brilliantly.

LOVIN' THE SKIN YOU'RE IN


Throughout life, you’ll discover personal attributes that frustrate, challenge, or maybe even disgust you. Perhaps your eyes aren’t the color you’d like, or your nose is a little wider than most. Maybe you’ve always wanted to be tall or maybe your foot size makes it difficult to find shoes in your size. Perhaps your wide hips have been something you’ve always wrestled with or the thin frame that everyone else admires, you would trade any day. What can you do to accept your body just the way it is?
 
If you have found yourself struggling with loving the skin you are in, then consider these action tips designed to help you learn to LOVE the skin you are in:

Remind yourself that it’s the only body you have. It might sound silly but, unless you have lots of money and time to pay for and undergo cosmetic surgeries, this is the body you’ve been given. Accepting it will save you a lot of grief.

Survey your body “systems.” How well does your body work for you? Examine the intricacies of your very own body and its functionality. You’ll likely be pleased at all the things your body does for you.

Take pride in your positive attributes. If your hair is short and kinky, rock what you’ve got. Has having to wear glasses always been your challenge, well order a new set of frames that compliment your face and express your personality. Trouble with your skin? Explore a new facial regiment but love it nonetheless. These are attributes that make you uniquely you.

. Notice when your body works well for you. Maybe you almost missed the bus this morning but you ran like a racehorse and jumped on the bus just before it pulled away. You must admit, it’s a beautiful thing to be able to run fast enough to catch the bus. Recognize how well your body can respond to your needs.  

Develop a realistic plan for change. In the event you wish to build muscles in your arms, it can be done. But you must consult with exercise coaches and similar experts to achieve the results you want. Pay attention to those attributes that you have the power to change.
Commit to your plan to change what’s possible and set aside time to achieve your goals. Once you realize what you have the power to change and you have written a realistic plan, vow to follow your plan. Allow time in an average day to work your plan. You’re forming a new habit and it must be repeated several times weekly to achieve the results you’re after.

7.Deal in healthy ways with things you can’t change. Rather than get disappointed or angry about one of your body’s attributes, recognize that certain people are born with certain characteristics that likely are unable to be changed. Embracing your physical appearance just the way you are is the best route to living a life of self-confidence and serenity.

Take care of your body. The best way to show your love for your body is to take good care of it. Notice your appearance. Use lotions and moisturizers to maintain supple, smooth skin. Keep your hair healthy. Take part in regular and consistent exercise. Provide good nourishment to your body. No matter what size, weight, or physical attributes you have, when you take care of your body, you’re showing the love you have for yourself.
 
Accepting your body image is so important to your everyday existence. When you can say, “I’m okay just the way I am,” you’ll lead a calmer, more settled, and happier life.
By Nicole Steele October 29, 2025
Don’t Give Up: Better Days Are Still Ahead Let’s be honest — the world feels heavy right now. Between what’s happening in our nation and across the globe, it can sometimes feel like we’re walking through more darkness than light. Many people are tired. Some are hurting. And others are simply trying to hold it together one day at a time. If that’s you — take heart. You’re not alone. In times like these, it’s easy to believe that positivity means pretending everything is okay or plastering on a smile when your heart is aching. But that’s not what true positivity is. Being positive doesn’t mean you have to be happy all the time or ignore reality. It means choosing hope. It means trusting that even when things look uncertain, better days are coming. You’ve faced challenges before — and you made it through. The same strength that carried you then still lives inside you now. That same resilience, that same spark, that same faith is still working on your behalf. So pause. Take a breath. Remind yourself that your current season is not your final destination. There is purpose even in the pain, lessons even in the waiting, and growth even in the struggle. You are not forgotten. You are not failing. You are being refined. Hold on, friend — joy is on the horizon. Keep believing. Keep building. Keep shining. The world still needs your light.
By Nicole Steele October 1, 2025
One of the fastest ways to crush your confidence is surrounding yourself with confidence crushers. The truth is—some relationships have expiration dates. And that’s okay. This is YOUR season to thrive. Don’t be afraid to evaluate who’s really meant to make the trip with you. Not everyone can go where you’re going, and that’s a sign of growth, not loss. You deserve peace, joy, and confidence on the journey ahead. Take a moment today to check your circle—because your future depends on it.
By Nicole Steele September 2, 2025
We’ve all been there—waiting for the stars to align, the bank account to grow, the kids to get older, or the fear to fade before we step out and pursue that dream tugging at our hearts. But here’s the truth: the “perfect” time rarely comes. If you’re always waiting for conditions to be ideal, you may end up waiting forever. One of my favorite reminders says it best: “Sometimes later becomes never. Do it now.” Think about it—how many goals have you set aside with the intention of circling back “later”? Later, when you have more energy. Later, when life isn’t so busy. Later, when you feel ready. But the danger is that later can quietly slip into never. Your vision, your purpose, and your goals are too important to be left on hold. The dream inside of you was planted for a reason, and it deserves your action—not someday, but today. Fear, doubt, or procrastination may whisper excuses, but none of them are stronger than your “why.” So, where do you start? Small steps lead to big progress: 💎 Take the step — no matter how imperfect. 💎 Write the plan — clarity creates momentum. 💎 Make the call — the one you’ve been putting off. 💎 Start the thing — action beats hesitation every time. Each move you make today is an investment in your future self—the one who will thank you for the courage, the discipline, and the decision you made to begin. So don’t wait another day. Don’t let another week pass you by. The time is not later, it’s now. 👉 What’s ONE step you can take today toward your dream or goal? Share it below—I’d love to cheer you on! #DoItNow #DreamBig #TakeAction #NoBetterTime
By Nicole Steele August 19, 2025
Stop searching for happiness in the same people or places where you lost it. Sis, you didn’t hear wrong. You didn’t make the wrong decision when you chose yourself. That was courage. Now it’s time to lean fully into yourself—taking one intentional step each day toward your healing. And as you do, trust that God is mending the broken pieces, as He prepares you to rise stronger, bolder, and more confident than ever before. You were created to shine, to stand tall, and to walk in self-assurance. Don’t doubt it for a second. You’ve got this, sis. #Confidence #HealingJourney #ChooseYou #FaithAndFearlessness #YouGotThisSis
By Nicole Steele August 11, 2025
"We can’t solve our problems with the same thinking that created them." – Albert Einstein Confidence isn’t just about how you show up—it’s also about how you think. If your current thoughts got you here, but you want to go further, it’s time for a mental upgrade. This week, take an honest look at: Your mindset – Are you thinking in ways that empower you or keep you doubting yourself? Your habits – Are they building your confidence or chipping away at it? Your circle – Do the people around you believe in you, or make you question your worth? Your patterns – Are you clinging to old ways of thinking that no longer serve the confident version of you? True confidence grows when we give ourselves permission to release what holds us back—whether it’s a limiting belief, an unhealthy habit, or a relationship that drains us. This week’s challenge: Identify one thought, habit, or connection you will let go of to create space for a stronger, bolder, more confident you.
By Nicole Steele August 4, 2025
Be the Reason Someone Smiles… and Stands Taller Confidence isn’t just built in the mirror—it’s built in the moments we feel seen, valued, and encouraged. Today, YOU have the power to help someone believe in themselves a little more. Speak life. Share a genuine smile. Give a compliment that uplifts, not just flatters. Remind someone of their worth. And guess what? The more you uplift others, the more your own confidence grows. Because confident people create confident spaces. Today, I challenge you to be bold enough to be kind. Be brave enough to build someone else up. Be the reason someone believes in themselves today.
By Nicole Steele July 22, 2025
Don’t Be Discouraged by Closed Doors Just because a door didn’t open doesn’t mean your journey is over — it simply means it wasn’t your door. If the door doesn’t open, it’s not your door. Trust that what God has for you is already yours. Keep showing up. Keep preparing. Keep believing. Your consistency and faith are not in vain. God’s timing is perfect, and when the door meant for you opens, no one and nothing can shut it. Stay faithful. Stay focused. Stay ready. Your moment is coming — right on time.
By Nicole Steele July 17, 2025
THINK ABOUT IT THURSDAY... Hey sis, you don’t need to shrink yourself to be accepted. You don’t owe anyone access to a version of you that compromises your peace. I've come to learn that while people pleasing may feel polite, it can quietly steal your power, your time, and your joy. Saying “yes” to everything often means saying “no” to yourself, and that's not cute. I want you to remember, you’re allowed to do what’s best for YOU. That doesn’t make you selfish—it makes you wise. Boundaries are not walls; they are bridges to your well-being. Today, give yourself permission to: - Say no without over-explaining - Choose rest without guilt - Protect your peace without apology Drop a comment below if you're done being everything for everyone. It's time to normalize self-respect over self-sacrifice. 
By Nicole Steele July 14, 2025
Stop Settling. Start Striving. ​ Sis, you weren’t created to play small. You weren’t designed to dim your light. You weren’t placed here to settle for crumbs when you were born to feast. It’s time to raise your standards, stretch your vision, and step into more — more purpose, more peace, more power. ​ Stop asking, “Is this enough?” and start declaring, “There’s more for me, and I’m going after it all!” No more shrinking. No more second-guessing. Only growth, greatness, and hitting your goals. This is your season to STRIVE, not settle.
By Nicole Steele July 11, 2025
STAY FOCUSED GIRL! When you fix your eyes on God and your goals, something powerful happens… You grow, you glow, and you inspire others to do the same. Distractions will come, but don’t let them detour your destiny. Stay planted in purpose, grounded in prayer, and focused on the bigger picture. Your consistency is your glow up.
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