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LOVIN' THE SKIN YOU'RE IN
Throughout life, you’ll discover personal attributes that frustrate, challenge, or maybe even disgust you. Perhaps your eyes aren’t the color you’d like, or your nose is a little wider than most. Maybe you’ve always wanted to be tall or maybe your foot size makes it difficult to find shoes in your size. Perhaps your wide hips have been something you’ve always wrestled with or the thin frame that everyone else admires, you would trade any day. What can you do to accept your body just the way it is?
If you have found yourself struggling with loving the skin you are in, then consider these action tips designed to help you learn to LOVE the skin you are in:
Remind yourself that it’s the only body you have. It might sound silly but, unless you have lots of money and time to pay for and undergo cosmetic surgeries, this is the body you’ve been given. Accepting it will save you a lot of grief.
Survey your body “systems.” How well does your body work for you? Examine the intricacies of your very own body and its functionality. You’ll likely be pleased at all the things your body does for you.
Take pride in your positive attributes. If your hair is short and kinky, rock what you’ve got. Has having to wear glasses always been your challenge, well order a new set of frames that compliment your face and express your personality. Trouble with your skin? Explore a new facial regiment but love it nonetheless. These are attributes that make you uniquely you.
. Notice when your body works well for you. Maybe you almost missed the bus this morning but you ran like a racehorse and jumped on the bus just before it pulled away. You must admit, it’s a beautiful thing to be able to run fast enough to catch the bus. Recognize how well your body can respond to your needs.
Develop a realistic plan for change. In the event you wish to build muscles in your arms, it can be done. But you must consult with exercise coaches and similar experts to achieve the results you want. Pay attention to those attributes that you have the power to change.
Commit to your plan to change what’s possible and set aside time to achieve your goals. Once you realize what you have the power to change and you have written a realistic plan, vow to follow your plan. Allow time in an average day to work your plan. You’re forming a new habit and it must be repeated several times weekly to achieve the results you’re after.
7.Deal in healthy ways with things you can’t change. Rather than get disappointed or angry about one of your body’s attributes, recognize that certain people are born with certain characteristics that likely are unable to be changed. Embracing your physical appearance just the way you are is the best route to living a life of self-confidence and serenity.
Take care of your body. The best way to show your love for your body is to take good care of it. Notice your appearance. Use lotions and moisturizers to maintain supple, smooth skin. Keep your hair healthy. Take part in regular and consistent exercise. Provide good nourishment to your body. No matter what size, weight, or physical attributes you have, when you take care of your body, you’re showing the love you have for yourself.
Accepting your body image is so important to your everyday existence. When you can say, “I’m okay just the way I am,” you’ll lead a calmer, more settled, and happier life.
CONFIDENCE CHECK "Confidence doesn’t mean you’re perfect—it means you’re courageous enough to keep showing up." Sis, perfection is not the goal. Consistency, courage, and showing up even when it’s hard—that’s where your power lies. Every time you rise, speak up, try again, or take one more step… you’re building the kind of confidence that can’t be shaken. * Show up messy. * Show up uncertain. * Just keep showing up. The more you do, the more unstoppable you become. Tag a woman who keeps showing up—no matter what.
MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY "You owe it to yourself to show up for your life, and you owe it to your Creator to show up for the life He gave you." – Jennifer Allwood Let that sink in. Yes, we’re living in challenging times. The weight is real. The battles are personal. But even still, you were created for more than just surviving. You were created to live, to lead, to shine. 💫 The time is not someday. 💫 The time is now. 💫 Show up, even if it’s with shaky hands and a hopeful heart. There’s purpose in your presence, power in your press, and destiny on the other side of your “yes.” The world is waiting. So show up… for YOU.
Hey Mom...your belief is your daughter's foundation. Behind every confident daughter is a mother who believed first, for both of them. 💕 Never underestimate the gift and the responsibility of believing in your daughter's dreams, her voice, her brilliance…and in your own. Your belief speaks louder than words and reaches deeper than lectures. It shapes how she sees herself and what she dares to become. So today, take a breath and remind yourself: you are her first mirror, her first cheerleader, and her first teacher of faith. Keep going, keep believing. For her. For you. For the legacy you're building together. #BuildingBrilliantBonds #MothersRaisingDaughters #BelieveInHer #ConfidenceStartsAtHome #RaisingBrilliantGirls #MamaLegacy
Did you miss yesterday’s Confident In The Calling session? You weren’t the only one, but let this be your sign not to miss the moment God is calling you into. Now more than ever, it’s time to seek out and walk boldly in your calling. Too many are still feeling frazzled by life, frustrated by delays, or fearful of failure, but your obedience can’t wait on perfect conditions. YOUR CALLING IS BIGGER THAN YOU. Someone’s breakthrough, healing, or transformation is directly connected to your yes. Let that sink in: your obedience is someone else's blessing. Stop waiting for the “right time.” Start with what you have. God has already placed everything you need in your hands and your heart. You don’t have to do it alone. The resources, guidance, and support are available to help you confidently answer the call. Visit www.ConfidentInTheCalling.com #ConfidentInYourCalling #AnswerTheCall #PurposeInMotion #FaithOverFear
When you answer your calling, it’s never just about you. Your obedience unlocks healing, hope, and breakthrough for others. Every step you take sends a ripple that reaches places you may never see. It's time to step Confidently Into your Calling —not just for you, but for the lives waiting on the other side of your "Yes".
A MONDAY MOTIVATION FOR MOMS The beauty of spring reminds us that growth takes time, care, and love. Like the blooming flowers, the bond between a mother and daughter flourishes with patience and intention. This season, lean into the little moments—those shared laughs, heart-to-hearts, and everyday wins. They're the sunshine and rain that help your relationship grow deeper roots and brighter blooms. 🌷💕 Let this spring be a fresh start, a reminder that you and your daughter are growing together—stronger, wiser, and more connected.
This is your weekly reminder that you are doing an incredible job raising a world-changer. As you pour love, lessons, and leadership into your daughter—don’t forget to refill your own cup too. This week, choose progress over perfection, connection over chaos, and grace over guilt. You are shaping a legacy with every hug, every hard conversation, and every moment you choose to show up—even when it’s tough. Here’s to a week of wins—big and small. Keep showing up. Keep leading with love. Your daughter is watching… and learning how to shine from your light. You’ve got this, mama! Place a "❤️" in the chat if you receive this word of encouragement today. #BuildingBrilliantBonds #MomsRaisingQueens #ConfidentMoms #GirlMomGoals #DITR #ConfidentHeartsConnectedHomes
Self-confidence is one of the greatest gifts you can give your daughter. It’s not just about helping her feel good about herself—it’s about shaping her into a resilient, emotionally healthy young woman who can stand tall in a world full of pressures and comparisons. From playground politics to social media filters, your daughter will face challenges that can chip away at her self-worth. That’s why the foundation you build at home is so essential. The love, support, and encouragement you offer her daily will be the voice she hears in her head when things get tough. Here are seven powerful ways to nurture your daughter’s self-confidence, one intentional moment at a time: 1. Let Her Do It Her Way Yes, it might be tempting to swoop in and "fix" her messy ponytail or the uneven layers of her handmade card—but let her take the lead when possible. Whether she’s making her bed, packing her lunch, or styling her outfit for the day, give her room to own her decisions. When you allow your daughter to take charge of small tasks, you're telling her, “I believe in you.” That message sticks. 2. Celebrate the Small Wins Your voice is powerful. Use it to build her up. Whether she stands up for a friend, improves her math test score, or tries something new—even if she’s scared—acknowledge it. Praise that focuses on effort rather than perfection helps your daughter understand that it’s okay to try, fail, and try again. (i.e. “I saw how hard you worked on that science project. I’m so proud of your effort!”) 3. Be Genuinely Curious About Her World Ask questions about what she’s reading, the TikTok dances she’s learning, or how practice went. When you show interest, you show her that her world matters to you. Your presence and attention reinforce her sense of value and teach her she’s worth being known—not just managed. 4. Help Her Name and Navigate Big Feelings Instead of brushing off her emotions with “You’re fine” or “Don’t be so sensitive,” help her identify what she’s feeling—and remind her that all emotions are valid. When she knows her feelings are respected, she’ll trust her intuition and feel more confident standing up for herself—even when her peers are pulling her in another direction. (i.e. “Sounds like you felt left out when the girls didn’t invite you to sit with them. That would make anyone feel sad.”) 5. Choose Your Battles (Gracefully) Yes, she left her socks in the living room again. But does it really need a lecture? Some habits fade more quickly when ignored, especially if you’re pouring your energy into praising the behaviors you do want to see. Try giving her “positive attention minutes” daily—just 10–15 minutes where you focus entirely on her. This often leads to fewer attention-seeking behaviors. Let your feedback be more about lifting her up than tearing her down. 6. Trade Criticism for Coaching Criticism can shrink her spirit. Instead, guide her gently. Mistakes are powerful learning opportunities. Give her space to reflect and recalibrate. This teaches her she doesn’t have to be perfect to be deeply loved. 7. Connect With Eye Contact and a Kind Voice When your daughter talks, pause and look her in the eye. Even a quick glance during dinner prep can remind her she’s seen and heard. These small but consistent cues—eye contact, a gentle tone, a smile—send one big message: You matter. Your daughter is watching, learning, and absorbing everything you say and do. You don’t have to be a perfect mom—you just have to be a present one. Keep showing up, keep cheering her on, and trust that your love is making a lifelong impact. You've got this, Mama. Reflections: What messages about confidence and self-worth did I receive growing up—and how might they be influencing my parenting today? How often do I affirm my daughter for who she is, not just for what she does? Am I modeling the kind of self-talk I want my daughter to have about herself? What’s one area where I can step back and let her take the lead—even if it’s not “perfect”? How can I create more intentional one-on-one connection time with her this week?
🌸 Dear Moms, Your Love Matters 🌸 To all the incredible Mothers (Grandmothers, Aunts, and others raising girls) out there, we see you. ❤️ The way you pour your love, time, and energy into your girls, even when it feels like they might not notice or appreciate it—trust us, it matters. Your hugs, your kind words, your unwavering support—they plant seeds that will grow in their hearts. Sometimes, those seeds take time to bloom, but the love you sow will never be wasted. 🌱 There may be days when they push you away, roll their eyes, or seem distant. Don’t give up. Your persistence in showing love and affection teaches them resilience, trust, and the beauty of unconditional love. 💖 You are their safe space, their compass, and their cheerleader. Keep going! You are doing an amazing job, even when it doesn’t feel like it. Tag a mom who needs to hear this today. Let’s lift each other up, and remember to mark your calendar for my FREE Building Brilliant Bonds Mini-Masterclass on Monday, January 27th at 7:30 p.m. Visit https://bit.ly/45XW48B for details and to reserve your seat today. #BuildingBrilliantBonds #MotherhoodJourney #UnconditionalLove #KeepGoingMom #EncourageMoms #YouGotThis #DITR
🌸 This New Year, make your relationship with your daughter a top priority. 🌸 As mothers, we often juggle a million things—work, family, life—but the bond you share with your daughter is one that will shape her future. Take time to listen, connect, and nurture that unique relationship. Show her love, patience, and support, so she grows up feeling valued and understood. This year, let’s invest in our daughters’ hearts, minds, and futures. A strong mother-daughter relationship is one of the greatest gifts you can give her. Join The FREE Building Brilliant Bonds Mini Masterclass hosted by Dr. Nicole Steele, The Confidence Coach and Girl Guru in Monday, January 27th. Visit www.TheRealNicoleSteele.com to register today 💖 Make time. Make memories. Make her feel loved. 💖
